Each individual is made with extreme care and patience by the creator. He also made a tuning in our minds to be able to mingle with other fellow humans. H planted the idea of a family and the idea that in a family the members do things together.
Individuals lose their extreme individuality to give into the liking and mannerism of the family members. This is normal and it also binds the members in a nuclear or joint family together. The parents change with times and adapt to newer ways of relaxation and leisure. Children listen to stories of parents and grandparents way of life and find novel and unique way to emulate them.
Its a done thing, but one might ask, " why should I change ? "Why should I do what the others want me to?"
There are two ways people around you react. The most common and the most easy way, is people ignore you. The life of people with whom you share life's joys and sorrows goes on without your involvement, your feedback. The other members of the family find other ways and people to entertain themselves, other methods to express themselves. Their love for you as a person might not diminish but the level of involvement changes.
The other way people usually wives - react is, she changes. She has already changed home, life, name, career, priorities, self friends - everything for the new household. she changes her character and personality to suit the husband, who refuses to change with time, who staunchly believes his way is the only way and there is no other highway.
The wife lives life day to day, doing her duties and chores. The kids surprisingly do well and move to a happier place and time, but the wife is bound with the unique bond of love - maybe, society - of course, stigma - probably.
Individuals lose their extreme individuality to give into the liking and mannerism of the family members. This is normal and it also binds the members in a nuclear or joint family together. The parents change with times and adapt to newer ways of relaxation and leisure. Children listen to stories of parents and grandparents way of life and find novel and unique way to emulate them.
Its a done thing, but one might ask, " why should I change ? "Why should I do what the others want me to?"
There are two ways people around you react. The most common and the most easy way, is people ignore you. The life of people with whom you share life's joys and sorrows goes on without your involvement, your feedback. The other members of the family find other ways and people to entertain themselves, other methods to express themselves. Their love for you as a person might not diminish but the level of involvement changes.
The other way people usually wives - react is, she changes. She has already changed home, life, name, career, priorities, self friends - everything for the new household. she changes her character and personality to suit the husband, who refuses to change with time, who staunchly believes his way is the only way and there is no other highway.
The wife lives life day to day, doing her duties and chores. The kids surprisingly do well and move to a happier place and time, but the wife is bound with the unique bond of love - maybe, society - of course, stigma - probably.
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